Revisiting the Vineyard

Family and business matters took Monic and me back to Belgium and the Netherlands this week.
It’s been over six months since we were last there together, and it felt like coming home – even more so for Monic!
With the kind permission of the new mission leaders, we were able to spend a little time visiting some of our former missionaries who are still serving in the countries.
What a reunion it was!
The air was filled with laughter, the sharing of stories, a few tears of joy, and, of course, countless warm hugs.
It was a moment to cherish and one that reminded us of the deep bonds of friendship and love, formed through our shared service.
Seeing everyone again was more than just a pleasant visit, it was a time to reflect and reminisce.
We recounted the countless memories we had shared: spiritual milestones, hard-fought lessons, and small victories that had brought us all closer to each other and the Saviour.
These young people taught us so much about resilience, faith, and the joy of missionary work.

Growth

It was a privilege to see how much they had grown and to be reminded of the lasting impact of the gospel.
As I reflected on the special relationships formed during those years, Paul’s words in Philippians came to mind: “I thank my God upon every remembrance of you, Always in every prayer of mine for you all making request with joy, For your fellowship in the gospel from the first day until now” (Philippians 1:3-5).
How fitting this scripture is to capture the joy and gratitude of reconnecting with those who have been a huge part of such a meaningful chapter in our lives.
Special times like these are extremely rare and very precious.
They remind us of the eternal nature of the relationships we build through service and the joy that comes from working together in the vineyard of the Lord.
What memories or connections have brought you the greatest joy recently?
How have they strengthened your faith or reminded you of the Lord’s hand in your life?

Weathering Life’s Storms

Storm Éowyn swept across Scotland and Ireland yesterday.
Walking through Dunfermline’s Public Park this morning, I saw lots of evidence of fallen trees.
Some uprooted trees had shallow roots, lacking depth.
I wondered if they’d have withstood the storm had their roots been deeper.
Similarly, each of us faces life’s winds and storms.
When adversity strikes, are you prepared to endure?
Seedlings fall, but only some flourish and grow into mighty trees.
Growth requires time, effort, perseverance, setbacks and adaptation.
“But unlike trees, we can choose to deliberately develop the spiritual root structure for our lives. We decide where to set our roots and how deeply to sink them into the soil. Daily decisions make tiny, almost imperceptible differences in the roots of our faith, the effect of which becomes foundational,” says L. Whitney Clayton.
In the Book of Mormon, Alma likened the word of God to a seed and spoke of nourishing its growth into a tree:
“And behold, as the tree beginneth to grow, ye will say: Let us nourish it with great care, that it may get root, that it may grow up, and bring forth fruit unto us. And now behold, if ye nourish it with much care it will get root, and grow up, and bring forth fruit.
But if ye neglect the tree, and take no thought for its nourishment, behold it will not get any root; and when the heat of the sun cometh and scorcheth it, because it hath no root it withers away, and ye pluck it up and cast it out.” (Alma 32:37-38.)
I testify that as we weather life’s storms, we are strengthened by learning of Jesus Christ.
Rooting ourselves deeply in His gospel and exercising faith in Him will fortify us against life’s winds and storms.
What steps can you take today to deepen your spiritual roots and prepare for the storms ahead?

Lines that define

Recently whilst working with a business client, we explored the concept of personal boundaries or the red lines we draw for ourselves and are unwilling to cross, even in the most difficult of situations.
The values that define our boundaries protect our well-being and even guide our decisions.
Boundaries can often reflect our deepest principles and non-negotiables.
They shape how we interact with others and help us navigate the challenges we face.
To bring this to life, we engaged in a few activities about boundaries.
We’d already created a psychologically safe space for everyone to share in our learning session.
Participants were asked to visualise a scenario where their boundaries had been tested, a moment when they felt uneasy, conflicted, or even compromised.
They were then invited to reflect: where did they draw the line?
Many chose to share their experiences openly with the group.
Did they stand firm, or did they allow others to cross that line?
The conversations that followed were eye-opening.
People shared how recognising and honouring their boundaries had empowered them, strengthened relationships, and brought clarity in difficult situations.
Others admitted how, at times, they had failed to assert their limits, leading to regret or frustration.
Understanding your own boundaries requires courage, self-awareness, and sometimes, a willingness to say “no.”
So, where do you draw the line?
How do your boundaries reflect who you are and what you stand for?
And, most importantly, how do you ensure those boundaries are respected?

Miles for Meals

For a long time, I’ve wanted to walk the 96 miles of the West Highland Way in Scotland.
Over the years I’ve been inspired by many friends who have already walked the Way.
I’m not get any younger, and in a few months’ time I’ll be turning 60.
So, it was time to make the plans and the effort to go and do!

Marys Meals

Yesterday, I laced up my walking boots, put on my Mary’s Meals t-shirt and put in some more training miles…
Commencing 27th May 2025, I’ll be walking the West Highland Way with circa 25 returned missionaries that I served alongside in the Belgium Netherlands Mission of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints between 2021 and 2024.
They’re all travelling from thousands of miles away at their own cost, to journey with me.
Together, we’re not just embarking on a physical challenge; we’re walking with purpose to raise funds for Mary’s Meals, an organisation that provides millions of children with life-changing meals every day.
As a Christian, I’ve always endeavoured to follow the example of Jesus Christ.

Doing Good

Just like Jesus “went about doing good,” (Acts 10:38), Mary’s Meals follows that same Christlike example, serving millions of children with love and compassion.
By feeding hungry children, they enable them to attend school and build a brighter future.
It’s humbling to think that our steps along the rugged paths of the West Highland Way can play a small part in such a significant cause.
Walking too, has always been a powerful metaphor for life’s journey.
Each step, no matter how small, brings us closer to a greater purpose.
As we walk, we’ll face steep climbs and rocky descents, and the uncertainty of the ever-changing weather, but these challenges mirror the struggles faced by those we are striving to support.
Our efforts, combined with faith and determination, can make a difference.
I invite you to join us in this effort, whether by donating to Mary’s Meals, or finding your own ways to serve others.
Look out for our social media posts in the days ahead too, where you’ll be able to sponsor and donate to this worthwhile cause.
As you lace up your own shoes this week, whether for work, worship, or service, why not consider how you might walk with purpose.
Every step counts, and together, we can make the journey meaningful.
What small steps can you take this week to “go about doing good” in the lives of those around you?

Echoes of Dad’s Love

And just like that…
In the blink of an eye…
It’s been twenty years, since his passing on 16th January 2005.
Yesterday, we gathered to honour the memory of our dad.
“Giant Jacky” – as he was fondly known.
Mum is moving a little slower, her eyesight a little dimmer, but nevertheless, the matriarch of our clan, stoically presses forward, loved by so many.
The memories shared once more were special.
At the graveside, Paul shared about why the burial plot was secured in earshot of the railway line.
Mum even shared a new story about a poem dad had written for her, that she found after he’d passed to the other side of the veil.
It was a sweet recollection of his poetry prowess.
We miss him.
Many miss him.
Being together.
Laughing together.
Storytelling together.
Eating together.
His legacy of love, humour, and faith lives on through each of us.
As we reminisced, we were reminded that the influence of a great father never truly fades.
Do you have a special memory perhaps of “Jacky”.
If you knew him, we’d love to hear your story about him.
Please share, it would be lovely to hear it…

Pearls of Wisdom

Yesterday, Monic and I had a rather interesting and refreshing experience at Marchmont Dental Practice in Edinburgh, where our talented niece Sara works.
Some months ago, we made an appointment to trial a new system.
We went for an Airflow clean, a procedure carried out by Sara.
As I understand it, the Airflow technology works by emitting a powerful, yet precise jet of air, water, and fine powder to thoroughly clean our teeth.
The process was surprisingly fun and, more importantly, very effective.
Sara’s skilful approach, coupled with her warm and reassuring manner, made the entire experience both pleasant and at the same time quite educational!
She explained each step of the procedure clearly, putting us both completely at ease.
Dentists aren’t our favourite thing!
The results?
Brilliant!
Our teeth now feel cleaner, brighter, and remarkably smooth.
Reflecting upon yesterday, I couldn’t help but consider the lesson this procedure taught me.
The Airflow clean reminded me that careful, focused effort produces the best results.
Much like this procedure, life requires us to slow down, make careful adjustments, and focus on the task at hand.
It’s tempting to rush through things or seek shortcuts, but just as Sara’s meticulous work ensured a great outcome for our teeth, our best successes often come when we approach challenges with precision, patience, and attention to detail.
And just like our time with Sara, the process can be enjoyable when we engage fully in the moment.
Whether it’s work, relationships, or personal goals, taking a little extra time to focus and adjust carefully can make all the difference.
And who knows?
You might even find some fun and joy in the process!
What area of your life could use a ‘clean and polish’ to make it shine?

Are you following me?

My dear friend, Paul and I have a few things in common…
We were both born and raised in Dunfermline.
We both got married to someone from abroad.
We both have three children.
We both work in learning and development.
We both served in the England London Mission of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints 
We both served as Bishop of the Dunfermline Ward.
We both served as President of the Dundee Scotland Stake, me 2005 – 2014 and Paul currently.

Chance Encounters

And if the last few Saturday mornings are anything to go by, we both enjoy walking to fulfil our church Ministering assignments at the very same time!
As we’ve crossed paths in virtually the same spot these last few weeks, it’s become a bit of a running joke.
“𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏? 𝑨𝒓𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒇𝒐𝒍𝒍𝒐𝒘𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆, 𝒐𝒓 𝒂𝒎 𝑰 𝒇𝒐𝒍𝒍𝒐𝒘𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖?”
These chance encounters have added a touch of humour and a smile to our faces in our shared commitment to serve others.
Whilst he is heading north, I am heading south!
Ministering has always held a special place in both of our hearts.
There’s something deeply rewarding about reaching out to others, offering a listening ear, a kind word, or simply letting someone know they’re remembered and loved.
It’s not just a duty; it’s a privilege – a way to follow the Saviour’s example of service and compassion.
We both share a passion for this work.
Even now, as it is his turn to carry the mantle of Stake President, his dedication to these simple but significant acts of care is inspiring.
We both know that real joy in ministering comes not from grand gestures, but from consistent, small acts of love and service.
And yet, life has a way of adding a touch of humour to even the most heartfelt endeavours.
It’s a light-hearted reminder that ministering doesn’t have to be stiff or overly formal, it’s about connection, warmth, and even a good laugh along the way.
As I reflect on these moments, I feel a deep sense of gratitude for Paul, for his leadership, friendship, and example.
Serving alongside him in this way reminds me that ministering is more than a responsibility; it’s a joyful journey we share together, one visit at a time.
What small acts of love and service have brought a smile to your face lately?

Warm Hearts, Cold Days.

Weeks in the planning, Raymond, Paul, Mike, and I set off for the temple in Preston last Tuesday, for three days away together.
It was a journey that proved to be both heartwarming and nostalgic, taking us down memory lane to recall much simpler times of a bygone era.
The trip had its roots in an initial conversation between Raymond and me several weeks ago.
What began as a casual chat, eventually grew into a plan, culminating in our journey this week.
For Raymond, it had been several years since he was last able to visit the temple, between covid times and health challenges keeping him away.

Planning & Logistics

After lengthy discussions with staff at his care home and with other family members, we were delighted to receive the green light to proceed.
However, the logistics required no small amount of effort.
Booking a specialist vehicle, arranging disabled accommodation at the temple, obtaining the necessary recommendations, and figuring out his care requirements were all hurdles we had to overcome.
Add to that the bitterly cold, freezing temperatures and the challenge of manoeuvring Raymond and his wheelchair into the back of the accessible vehicle, proved quite the operation!
Yet somehow, we managed it all.

The Rewards

The reward was three days of service in the temple, filled with gentle camaraderie and timeless moments that felt truly idyllic.

We certainly liked to tease one another – a lot!
Being at the temple and the shared purpose brought a sense of peace and togetherness that was both comforting and uplifting.
As we ministered to one another, sharing acts of love and kindness, I was reminded of Galatians 6:2, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”
The experience was a wonderful reminder of the power of friendship, careful planning, and staying young at heart despite life’s challenges.
This trip wasn’t just about the temple, on reflection it was also about the bonds between us.
Through witty banter, shared memories, and quiet reflections, we experienced a kind of cheerful resilience and a reminder of what truly matters in life.
It was charming, heartwarming, and an experience that we’ll treasure for years to come.
What cherished memories or moments of ministering have brought you joy and strengthened your bonds with others?

The Power of Focused Attention

Yesterday, I returned to my management consulting work for my first full day this year.

I was happy to get back!

It felt great to re-engage and, more importantly, to make real progress by focusing my attention on what truly mattered.

The day began with a simple yet powerful step: creating an action list.

I carefully prioritised the tasks that absolutely needed to be accomplished and directed my energy there.

To maintain my focus and clear my mind, Monic suggested I go alone and take an hour-long walk through the park.

The crisp winter chilly air and natural surroundings worked wonders, refreshing my thoughts and preparing me for the day ahead.

This deliberate focus transformed my day.

As I worked, distractions and interference seemed to fade into the background.

I was fully present in the moment, and the results spoke for themselves, with clear progress and a deep sense of productivity.

One moment particularly stood out during a call with a new client.

I listened intently, giving my full attention to every word.

By focusing deeply, I was able to engage meaningfully, ask the right questions, and gain a clear understanding of their specific needs.

Focus, I’ve realised, is more than just paying attention; it’s a disciplined effort to direct your energy and concentration to the task at hand.

With moments of clarity and intention, like my walk in the park, I know we can unlock our ability to achieve more, engage deeply, and truly make a difference.

What actions do you take to stay focused and clear your mind for a productive day?

Habits that shape us

As 2025 begins, I’ve been considering the habits I’ve developed over the years – the small, steady practices that have shaped who I am today.
Daily journaling, something I began decades ago, has grown into something far more meaningful, even inspiring me to finish my book this year.
It reminds me that the smallest, most consistent actions can lead to unexpected and fulfilling results.
This year feels like an opportunity to build on those routines and make them even more purposeful.
Our daily walks, for instance, could become a time for deeper reflection, meaningful conversations and they’re certainly helping me prepare for the West Highland Way’s 96 miles in May!
I think my writing could even evolve into exploring new forms.
For instance more storytelling or allowing creativity to stretch me in new directions – poetry perhaps!
As we slow down and notice our positive habits, they seem to have a way of growing with us.
What starts as a small step, making time for gratitude, connecting with others, or simply being in the moment and present, can compound over time, shaping our lives in powerful ways.
What good habits or productive practices have shaped your life in recent years?
As you look ahead to 2025, how might you take them further or adapt them to your current needs?
I’d love to hear what’s worked for you – your journey might just inspire someone else to start theirs…