Events happen that create change.
Being change agile has been critical for all of us this last year, life has changed significantly.
World War II
Cast your mind back a few generations. At the outbreak of WWII, the massive change of war impacted every household across the nation. There were repercussions for everyone.
One consequence was that the UK government embarked upon a scrap drive with households all over the nation donating their iron railings and gates to the war effort. It was quite an initiative, creating a feeling of altruistic sacrifice amongst the people of the country. Indeed it was a feel good factor, boosting morale, we were all in this together!
The recycled iron collected was used to create steel for all kinds of uses during the war, ships, tanks, planes, tools etc.
Subsequently mile after mile of iron railings vanished from our streets. Even after all these years, our neighbourhood still has lots of evidence to suggest that great sacrifice was made for the war effort.
Whilst out walking yesterday, we noticed that one of the larger houses in our area had new iron railings installed. They looked great! As we continued our walk, we observed just how many other homes in our community had never replaced the railings. Despite the fact that 80+ years have passed by!
Somehow yesterday, the fact that one home had new iron railings, accentuated the issue, namely there were so many homes that hadn’t done anything in all those years.
So – why is that?
- Our initial thought was perhaps people didn’t have the money to replace the railings? Would that be the case even after 80+ years?
- Perhaps people just aren’t interested in beautifying their homes and replacing the iron railings, its unimportant?
- Could it be that people are just lazy and can’t be bothered?
- Perhaps they like the little iron stubs protruding out of their walls? – No that’s just daft we thought!
- It could be that despite 80+ years passing, it is something that generations of homeowners have never gotten around too?
- Maybe folks like the constant reminder that the iron stubs are an important part of the social history of the area?
- Or after all of those ideas, could it be something completely different – that as yet we haven’t thought of?
What do we learn about the speed of change?
The speed of change at the start of WWII was incredibly fast. The demand for steel accelerated quickly to meet the needs of the war effort. There was a huge need, driving the change.
Post war it seems, the issue of replacement railings has only ever been addressed by a few.
There is nothing now driving the need for change.
It is simply a matter of personal motivation and a few of the factors outlined above. The speed factor, the big event driving the change – has disappeared! Aside from an occasional comment or passing remark, no one is driving the change. Perhaps that it the biggest lesson of all.
What drives change in your own life and in your own community?
In my coaching conversations, regularly I find that individuals feel 𝒑𝒖𝒔𝒉𝒆𝒅 into something rather than feeling 𝒑𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 by it.
One of the greatest lessons in life is to find something that 𝒑𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒔 you! If we are open and willing to learn, life has a way of teaching us by 𝒑𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈 us towards something.
When you keeping 𝒑𝒖𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 yourself to do something, oftentimes it feels like something you have to do and then it can become tiresome. You can only 𝒑𝒖𝒔𝒉 yourself for so long before you give up. But when you’re 𝒑𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 by something, attracted by it even, it feels like something you get to do and you tend to become even more passionate about it.
I am 𝒑𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 by coaching, personal development and learning – I love it! Frequently, I’ll share my insights and discoveries about what I learn with others, to hopefully inspire and help them achieve more.
In life we learn what is most important by finding something that 𝒑𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒔 us towards it – this is where we should focus our energies.
Oftentimes the most profound insights are really the simplest.
𝑷𝒖𝒔𝒉 𝒗 𝑷𝒖𝒍𝒍
Consider what 𝒑𝒖𝒍𝒍𝒔 you. Therein your purpose awaits!
“All it took was a little push” said the taxi driver. Let me turn the clock back to one week ago.
My taxi didn’t arrive at the hotel. Reception ordered me another one – it didn’t show either. So, I walked to the taxi rank a few minutes away and took a taxi to my business client where I was delivering a workshop that day. I always pay by card, but it turned out that he didn’t have a card reader, and I didn’t have any cash. On the way, we stopped at a cash machine. Then we talked.
Our conversation went like this…”So why don’t you have a card reader” I asked. “Well, I have been meaning to do that for a while now” he replied. Probing further “How long is a while?”..”Oh, a few years I think.” We then discussed the benefits of card readers, for his cash flow, for his customers, new business opportunities and his resistance to change. I committed him to get the reader.
Back with the same client this week, I followed up with my taxi driver. He is now the owner of a new card reader. He is also benefiting in lots of ways and loves the new opportunities at hand. For starters he’s had 6 fares from me to help him on his way! “Thank you again for the little push” he said.
Who can you help with a little push to get them on their way?