Two Doors, One Important Lesson

Yesterday I popped into Marks and Spencer for a few bits n pieces and came out feeling a little weighed down.

I had a bag in each hand and no spare fingers to speak of.

When I reached the exit, I leaned into the door with my shoulder and shuffled my way outside.

Success…or so I thought.

As the door swung shut behind me, I glanced back and locked eyes on another shopper who was right behind me.

Because of my shoulder charge, the door had closed much faster than expected.

I quickly apologised for not noticing them sooner.

They were gracious about it, but I walked away thinking, I could have done better there.

I suppose as we grow older, we’re meant to grow gentler too.

Yesterday reminded me I’m still learning that.

A few minutes later, on my way home, I passed the local baker’s shop.

A man had just come out, arms full of bread and boxes, looking at his van door the way I had looked at that shop door.  His hands were completely full. This time I didn’t hesitate.  I put my own bags down and asked, “Can I help?”  He smiled and said, “Yes please.” And I opened the van door for him.  He thanked me warmly, and I carried on home feeling lighter than when I’d left Marks and Spencer, even though my shopping hadn’t changed at all.

It struck me how quickly we’re given another chance.

One moment we miss an opportunity to notice someone.

The next moment, we’re given one.

There’s a simple scripture that says it best: “Be ye kind one to another.” – Ephesians 4:32

And remember this little song?…

“I want to be kind to ev’ryone,

For that is right, you see.

So I say to myself, “Remember this:

Kindness begins with me.” – Children’s Songbook 145

Decency, courtesy and kindness don’t require grand gestures.

Sometimes it’s just holding a door or perhaps noticing when someone can’t.

“Ask yourself: Have you been kind today? Make kindness your daily modus operandi and change your world.” – Annie Lennox

If you miss an opportunity for kindness today, are you ready for the next one?