Its a phrase that starts many of our most beloved fairy tales.

Storytellers use these words to alert their readers to the fact that the story wasn’t for real. It was to be enjoyed and learned from, but it actually didn’t happen.

Every moment in time only happens once.

The implication of that fact is frequently forgotten. Time passes all too quickly, leaving only the memory of it. We can never relive a moment. All we have of the past is the memory that becomes our story.

Unlike the fairy tales of our childhood, our story is real.

The secret to making each moment better is to stop spending too much time concerning ourselves about the past, or worrying about the future.

Neither do us any good.

Commit to live in each moment, to look around and be aware of others’ needs so you can help. Pay attention to the beauty all around, enjoy the sights, sounds and smells that are part of each moment.

As we approach each moment fully aware that time will happen only once, our stories, too, can be different. As we reach out and serve others, we not only help them gain the “happily ever after” they desire, but we also come closer to making our very own happy ending.

Stop and consider your own once upon a time.