It has been an interesting week thus far in my consulting and coaching world.

I’ve encountered one word, several times over – 𝒉𝒖𝒎𝒊𝒍𝒊𝒕𝒚.

I’ve worked with different organisations on a number of leadership topics, and yet time and again, our conversations have returned to humility.

Life has taught me that there are two main pathways to humility.

Firstly, we can 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞 to be humble.

There comes a time when we each have to pause and acknowledge that things aren’t going the way we’d hoped.

It takes real courage to admit, first to ourselves and then to others, that we’re stuck, unsure, or sometimes even, simply way out of our depth.

Humbling ourselves means choosing to open up rather than pretend we’ve got it all together.

It might look like asking for advice, learning from someone who’s walked a similar path, picking up a book, or reaching out to someone we trust.

It’s a quiet but powerful step: a willingness to grow, rather than go it alone.

Secondly, we are 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 to be humble.

This one can be even tougher, much tougher.

Being humbled often arrives over time, uninvited, through failure, disappointment, or moments when the truth hits home really hard and we realise we’re the ones who got it wrong.

Sometimes even a sense of shame can haunt us for a while.

Its my witness, that it is in those uncomfortable moments that conversely something good can start to happen.

It’s the start of taking ownership, of letting go of pride, and choosing a more sure path.

Though painful, being humbled can become the turning point, where we begin to rebuild more honesty, deeper empathy, and stronger self-respect.

I’ve experienced this in my own life, several times over and it truly is painful.

Research shows, that in the leadership world, when companies hire humble leaders, the whole organisation benefits.

It’s a fact, that leaders who have learned to walk in humility, to be curious, and to engage others collaboratively, are more likely to succeed.

Just think what might happen if we choose to live by this virtue, in our own homes…

Indeed, life is a long lesson in humility!

Which path to humility are you currently walking, and what might change if you chose to take the first step, willingly?